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The marriage proposal atop the Empire State Building is Instagram’s new obsession

Russian rooftoppers Angela Nikolau and Ivan Kuznetsov climbed the spire of the Empire State Building without authorization and were later arrested. But their marriage proposal suspended above Manhattan has reignited one of the city's most powerful images: New York as a vertical myth, a space of risk, desire, and imagination.

Over the past few hours, Instagram and TikTok have been flooded with the same image: a young woman with long brown hair dressed in black and her partner, his face covered by a balaclava, perched atop the spire of the Empire State Building, 1,454 feet (443 meters) above Manhattan. In their hands is a banner carrying a pacifist message about the power of love.

They are Angela Nikolau and Ivan Kuznetsov, better known as Beerkus, a Russian couple of rooftoppers famous for scaling buildings around the world without harnesses or permission. For them, it was almost business as usual—except that this time, atop the Empire State Building itself, Kuznetsov proposed to Nikolau. Shortly afterward, according to New York police, both were arrested.

From a Netflix documentary to the Empire State Building

Nikolau, the daughter of a former Russian circus performer, became a social media celebrity by posting images of herself suspended over the edges of some of the world's tallest buildings. Beerkus is another well-known figure in the international urban-climbing scene. Together, they have amassed around 1.5 million followers and have documented their exploits for years, taking them to skyscrapers in Dubai, towers across China, and, most notably, the Merdeka 118 in Kuala Lumpur, the world's second-tallest building at 678.9 meters (2,227 feet). In 2024, their story became the Netflix documentary Skywalkers: A Love Story, which also premiered at the Sundance Film Festival.


According to early reports, the pair managed to access a restricted area of the Empire State Building before climbing to the building's antenna. There they unfurled their banner and remained for roughly half an hour. On the way down, Beerkus knelt on one of the platforms of the spire and proposed. Nikolau removed the cat mask she was wearing, kissed him, and held up the ring for the cameras.

The Empire State Building, designed by the architectural firm Shreve, Lamb & Harmon and completed in 1931 in just thirteen months, was the tallest building in the world for nearly four decades. Rising 443 meters (1,454 feet) to the tip of its antenna, it remains one of the defining symbols of the New York skyline and one of the most photographed and filmed buildings on the planet, from King Kong to Sleepless in Seattle.

On New York's skyline, urban exploration never really died

The incident has inevitably raised questions about security at the Empire State Building and how the couple managed to reach one of the skyscraper's most protected areas. But perhaps the more interesting question lies elsewhere. In recent years, urban free climbing and rooftopping, once an internet subculture, have become one of the most radical forms of reclaiming architecture, restoring to iconic twentieth-century skyscrapers a value that seemed lost: their ability to inspire desire, adventure, and wonder.


We saw something similar with the Netflix live event that followed climber Alex Honnold as he ascended the Taipei 101, watched by millions around the world. At a time when many historic skyscrapers are viewed as obsolete real-estate assets, hollow icons, or simply financial instruments, these feats return them to the center of the collective imagination.

This is especially true in New York, where the Empire State Building is a true "Empire State of Mind" and the mythology of the skyline has always been extraordinarily powerful. Perhaps that is also why the images generated such engagement online: amid reactions ranging from alarm and condemnation to astonishment, many users interpreted the act as a nonviolent gesture expressed solely through an image of love.

From the couple's own statements, there appears to be no clear political message behind the stunt, but rather a desire to reclaim one of the city's most symbolic spaces and transform it into an intimate act. And, in the end, it matters little whether it was a performance, a media spectacle, or simply an extreme marriage proposal. What matters is that, for a few hours, someone managed to make us fall in love with vertical New York all over again.

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